Безмолвный груз: мужчины, психическое здоровье и давление быть сильным в современном Индии

Across the world, men are far less likely to talk about emotional pain. They are less likely to seek therapy, less likely to admit distress, and less likely to ask for help. Yet they are far more likely to die by suicide. In India, the gap is striking. According to the National Crime Records Bureau, roughly three out of four suicide deaths in the country are men. Farmers, engineers, labourers, entrepreneurs, students, and fathers all appear in these statistics. The pattern cuts across class, profession, and region. The Silent Load explores the hidden psychological pressures that shape male mental health in modern society. From childhood messages like "boys don't cry" to the intense expectations placed on men as providers and protectors, many men grow up learning that emotional control is part of their identity. Over time, this can create what psychologists describe as the silent load: the accumulation of unspoken pressures linked to work, financial responsibility, family expectations, social stigma, and loneliness. Drawing on research from psychology, neuroscience, and sociology, the book explains why men often experience distress differently from women. Instead of visible sadness, male depression frequently appears as irritability, overwork, withdrawal, addiction, or risk-taking. Because these patterns do not fit traditional stereotypes of depression, they often go unnoticed until the strain becomes severe. The book also examines how economic pressures, legal conflicts, relationship breakdown, and social expectations can amplify psychological stress for men in contemporary India.